Q: Do you need to grow with God on your own before you can grow with God with a spouse and why?

Q: Is it a bad idea to date a guy who is not in a position to be a spiritual leader, even though he has the desire and is making steps to become that?

Q: How do you explain to someone you are dating that you aren’t a virgin?

Q: My Christian roommate does not find it wrong for her boyfriend to stay the night, much less in her room with the door shut. I am in an uncomfortable situation & I have confronted her before about this, but she continues to not respect me. How do I go about dealing with this?

Q: How do you explain breaking up with someone who just isn’t “right” for you but then having feelings of frustration and jealousy when that person moves on to begin a relationship with someone else? Is it just pride and the age-old mind-trick of always wanting what we can no longer have?

Q: Even if it isn’t wise…is it really not ok to date non-Christians? I can’t find any passages except 2 Cor. 6:14 that seem to address this issue. Even that one seems a little hard to apply to this issue today.

Q: What is the best way that a wife can encourage, serve, and spur her husband on? What are some specifics from your own marriage’s that have helped it to blossom?

Q: How do you KNOW when you being in a relationship with someone pleases God? And how do you know when being in a relationship with someone displeases God

Q: If your relationship is struggling with having a focus on God, yet both of you want to have a God centered relationship; is it best to separate and focus on God individually, or to try to focus on God together and why?

Q: To what extent is a man meant to lead a woman and what is the best way to fit that role?

Q: How is sexuality and sexual feelings good but looking at someone lustfully bad?

Q: After you’ve dated someone for a long time (years), what are ways to avoid physical intimacy? I find it difficult to avoid this when it feels like we should be taking our relationship to the next level even when I know that God wants different

Q: How does a couple handle the constant flirting from another guy/girl?

Q: Is it a sin for a single guy/girl to flirt with someone who is in a relationship?

Q: Explain the whole “be a wall thing instead of being a door” in Song of Solomon chapter 8.

Q: What’s the difference between delivering your feelings to the Lord and denying your feelings “to the Lord”? Does that make sense? Ha-ha

Q: For young marrieds – how do you find a balance in day to day duties and responsibilities?

Q: Is there any hope for girls who messed up on remaining pure and have baggage?

Q: How spiritual should you be with your girlfriend before it gets too far and too in-depth? Because being in front of God naked is like/worse then being physically naked with each other.

Q: Is it wrong to be politically active and vocal in speaking out against same sex marriage? Or, as Christian Americans, should we live and let live?

Q: What does it mean to die to yourself and your wife?

Q: Do you think its ok to date someone who has a kid(s)?

Q: What would be a good book for a dating, Christian couple to read together?

Q: How much time is healthy to spend w/ your bf/gf? What can you do if a friend is spending too much time with their bf/gf at the expense of all other friendships?

Q: How much should attraction play in a God lead relationship? How much does it, if not the same as it should?

Q: What kind of physical activity (if any) would you condone in a dating relationship?

Q: Are soul ties real?

Q: Is it okay for guys and girls to be friends?

Q: Is it okay for guys and girls to be friends?

Q: How do you know if you’re taking it too fast versus meant to be together?

Q: On your wedding night do you HAVE to have sex or consummate the marriage on the first night even if you still aren’t ready?

Q: I know attraction is important, but is it something that grows over time or should it be more immediate? Love at first sight & such?

Q: What do you do when you have already gone too far? I feel like it’s too late to go back.

Q: If men and women are fully who god intended them to be in the context of marriage, what does that say about those who are called to a life of celibacy or singleness?

Q: Is masturbation wrong?

Q: Are the sensual thoughts I tend to have only ok after I’m married?

Q: Why would God create people who have neither male nor female parts?